Women are really good at sending out mixed signals. They say one thing yet do another, sometimes they just tease, and other times they are shockingly direct. It all leads to mass confusion for us men. Women become frustrated by it too. They don’t know why a man can’t read their signs. Were going to take a look at how you can be sure that she is interested in you.
Focus On What You Want First
The way you eliminate flaky behavior and woman that tease is by going after what you want. In the beginning this means you shouldn’t look into her signs too much. Some women flirt just for attention.
When you approach these women with everything you got she wont even know what hit her. She wasn’t expecting to feel this way about you. She was just playing around for fun. Your attracted to her so you go after her. When you focus on your needs and desires you wont be as vulnerable to her teasing. This also works on women who are shy. Shy women also send mixed signals.
She Draws Your Attention
The first thing most women do is try to draw your attention towards themselves. If she is really interested she may do some really wacky things. Like what? Drop something in front of you. Bend over in front of you. Walk near you or stand near you. Look for excuses to get closer to you. Twirl her hair, and many other things.
Do You Have Her Attention?
Don’t always look for the little details. If a woman is standing there talking to you then she is interested. If she is asking you questions she is interested. If she is laughing at your jokes then she is interested. These are signs that tell the obvious. What is the obvious? You have her attention.
She Makes Time For You
Why is that some women seem to always be to busy for you? Because, they are not interested in you. No woman is ever to busy for someone she is attracted to or where there is the potential for love. A woman will always make time for you if she is interested. She will rework her schedule for you, she will get someone to work her shift, she will do almost anything to be with you if she thinks your worth it.
She Tests You
Some women test men constantly. This isn’t always a bad thing because it means she is interested in you. What is a test? Its often a question where she tries to challenge you or catch you in a lie. Here are a few examples: How many girlfriends have you had? I don’t like the way you dress? Why do you work there?
She Tries To Relate To You
I had a woman once who said we had the same credit card. She thought that was just awesome. I thought she was insane. It was a way of her trying to relate to me and create rapport. Sometimes, she will point out some very insignificant similarities between the two of you. Look out for them because it means she is highly interested in you.
Some women may indicate that she will be submissive towards you. You can often tell by her body language or the way she looks at you. She will almost appear to be weak in the knees. For example, if you shake her hand she may almost rest her hand right into yours. It will almost be like she wants to hold hands with you. Another common thing you will see is her leaning in a great deal towards you, trying to touch, and stand closer to you.
What you choose to do with these signs is ultimately up to you. Most men do nothing and that’s why they don’t go on dates or have a girlfriend. So you can be a nothing man or a something man. It really is up to you.